I fail to love like Jesus so many times a day. Too many times to count! The truth is without His grace I would not love at all. We were all born after the image of Adam so in the flesh is lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.
What the world calls love is self-preservation. It’s all about you filling the void left in your heart from the fall of Adam. It’s rooted within your heart to seek self. Christ through the cross and resurrection removed the chains and longs to fill the void.
I want you to know if you feel conviction of your lack of love it only shows your salvation has taken place. You will fail at times a thousand times a day in being love to the broken but grace empowers you to stand up and try again and again. You were made to love. Stand up and try again!